Learn how to pursue your desires
in a way that strengthens your relationship

Rediscover Pleasure

Build Skills, Feel Better

I specialize in one-on-one coaching to navigate
sexual incompatibility with the person you love.

We will work together to help you:

  • Identify what you want and how to share it

  • Talk openly with your partner about sex

  • Set boundaries that protect you and your relationship

  • Feel more settled and less reactive

  • Connect to yourself and your partner

  • Build a sex life that feels satisfying to you

Get Excited Again

I help you develop skills and structure so you can have more of what you want while nurturing what you already have.

My approach is grounded in practicing tools that you can take into your everyday life.

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I coach people who want something different
from what their partner wants.

  • More sex

  • Less sex

  • Different sex

  • More freedom to explore

I see clients in
my home office in Brooklyn
and remotely.

Schedule challenges?
I offer asynchronous coaching
using voice memos.

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“It’s like I have a little Sarah voice in my head, but instead of giving advice, it presents me with a toolbox to better understand
myself and what I need.”

— ISABEL

Start feeling your
own sense of agency today.